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If you have decided to “Follow Jesus – no turning back!” You may have to tell some old “friends,” … “Get lost!”

Get Lost

He was a brand new “baby Christian” and had made a quality decision to follow Jesus. He had new desires and motivations. He wanted to please the Lord and overcome sinful habits. He was experiencing the transforming power of the Holy Spirit and the renewal of his thinking (Romans 12:1-2) But he was clearly having a struggle! Old friends and associates were still hanging around and applying a lot of pressure to return to the old lifestyle!

Apostle Paul addressed this issue… He warned the Christians in Corinth, “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’ Come back to your senses as you ought, and stop sinning!” (1 Cor 15:33-34 NIV)

In another location this is what Apostle Peter said about that challenge: “You have had enough in the past of the evil things that godless people enjoy—their immorality and lust, their feasting and drunkenness and wild parties, and their terrible worship of idols. Of course, your former friends are surprised when you no longer plunge into the flood of wild and destructive things they do. So they slander you. But remember that they will have to face God, who stands ready to judge everyone, both the living and the dead.” (1 Peter 4:3–5 NLT)

In my Bible reading this morning I read a verse that puts the issue even more directly: The psalmist said, “Depart from me, you evildoers, so that I may keep the commandments of my God!” (Psalm 119:115 ESV)

If you have “decided to follow Jesus… No turning back! No turning back!” sometimes you just have to tell those who would pressure you to go back into sin, “Get lost! I’m going to follow Jesus and live for Him!”

So here’s my advice as someone who has discipled a lot of new Christians: Of course you want to see the old friends that you ran with and caroused with (and sinned with) come to the Lord! But you can’t allow them to pressure you to return to your old way of life! How does the Bible put it? “Of them the proverbs are true: ‘A dog returns to its vomit,’ and, ‘A sow that is washed returns to her wallowing in the mud.’” (2 Peter 2:22 NIV) If your old friends will not receive your witness and testimony and try to pressure you to go back to your old lifestyle, you may have to distance yourself from them and even frankly tell them, “Get lost! I have decided to follow Jesus!” Someone else may have to be the person God uses to bring the Gospel to them.

Just say’n! You can’t afford to jeopardize your relationship with the Lord by turning your back on Him and going back into sin!

“I’ve learned the secret!” Apostle Paul

The SecretI’m not going to say much about today’s passage from the epistles that I read this morning. Going to let the Scripture speak for itself. I will say this much… Sometimes comparing Scripture with Scripture yields rich results! Think about what you’ll read in the next few moments! (One more thing… What I read this morning leaves me in awe of the Apostle Paul – what a secret! What a lesson he learned!”
 
Philippians 4:11–13 (ESV)
“I HAVE LEARNED IN WHATEVER SITUATION I AM TO BE CONTENT. I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned THE SECRET of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH HIM WHO STRENGTHENS ME!” (Philippians 4:11-13)
 
“I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel, so that it has become known throughout the whole imperial guard and to all the rest that my imprisonment is for Christ. And most of the brothers, having become confident in the Lord by my imprisonment, are much more bold to speak the word without fear. Some indeed preach Christ from envy and rivalry, but others from good will. The latter do it out of love, knowing that I am put here for the defense of the gospel. 17 The former proclaim Christ out of selfish ambition, not sincerely but thinking to afflict me in my imprisonment. What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed, and in that I rejoice. Yes, and I will rejoice! (Philippians 1:12–18)
 
“Whatever anyone else dares to boast of—I am speaking as a fool—I also dare to boast of that. Are they Hebrews? So am I. Are they Israelites? So am I. Are they offspring of Abraham? So am I. Are they servants of Christ? I am a better one—I am talking like a madman—with far greater labors, far more imprisonments, with countless beatings, and often near death. Five times I received at the hands of the Jews the forty lashes less one. Three times I was beaten with rods. Once I was stoned. Three times I was shipwrecked; a night and a day I was adrift at sea; on frequent journeys, in danger from rivers, danger from robbers, danger from my own people, danger from Gentiles, danger in the city, danger in the wilderness, danger at sea, danger from false brothers; in toil and hardship, through many a sleepless night, in hunger and thirst, often without food, in cold and exposure. And, apart from other things, there is the daily pressure on me of my anxiety for all the churches.” (II Corinthians 11:21-28)

Live life like someone left the gate open!

Enjoy lifeA common objection I hear from people faced with the decision to become a Christ follower is, “I’d have to give up too much! Christians just have so much they can’t do! There are just too many restrictions!”

Here’s what the Apostle Paul had to say on that subject… (I read it in the Bible just this morning – pay attention to the words I’ve emphasized by putting them in all caps)

“Finally, WHATEVER is true, WHATEVER is honorable, WHATEVER is just, WHATEVER is pure, WHATEVER is lovely, WHATEVER is commendable, if there is ANY excellence, if there is ANYTHING worthy of praise, think about these things!” (from Philippians 4:8)

Doesn’t sound like a life of unhappy, dour, restriction to me! Sounds like your “dream life!” Keep the best – throw out the garbage! Find the good, the positive, the uplifting, the constructive and enjoy it to the hilt!

Admittedly a person can’t have it both ways.. the destructive, the demeaning, the dilatory, the diseased, the damning, the deadly and what Paul recommends! But who wants to? I don’t know about you, but I’m into the eternal, not a dead end! Hey choose wisely! Jesus is the One who declared, “I have come that they might have life and have it abundantly!” It’s the other guy, that “comes only to rob, kill and destroy!” (John 10:10)