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Hey, your Heavenly Father is “a, good, good Father!”

Child begging for something

Sometime your children can drive you to distraction! Know what I mean? You love them with all your heart but if they want something they’ll ask… and then ask again… and again… and again… and again… (and you guessed it… AGAIN!) Now my dad and mom as a boy, loved me – there was no question about it in my mind! But finally, out of frustration, they’d look at me with a scowl on their face and say, “Son, if you ask me for that again you’ll never get what you’re asking for!

Now I want you to note… They loved me and wanted the best for me – I’m convinced! But I was being obnoxious – I was really getting under their skin with my persistence (and I guess you could say “impudence”)! They were human, after all…

But God is divine! And there is a wonderful passage in Scripture that draws on this analogy, both by contrast and comparison! It is a passage that reveals the wonderful character of our Heavenly Father (a “Father,” incidentally with no human frailty and flaw!)…
First the issue of repeated asking… “impudence” in making a request…

“And Jesus said to them, ‘Which of you who has a friend will go to him at midnight and say to him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves, for a friend of mine has arrived on a journey, and I have nothing to set before him’; and he will answer from within, ‘Do not bother me; the door is now shut, and my children are with me in bed. I cannot get up and give you anything’? I tell you, though he will not get up and give him anything because he is his friend, yet because of his IMPUDENCE he will rise and give him whatever he needs.” (ESV)

With God, persistence pays off! Don’t give up – keep asking! He won’t get angry (remember He’s divine!)

Then the issue of God’s pure, compassionate, character – interested only in “good gifts” for His children…

“What father among you, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him a serpent; or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit [“good gifts” in Matthew 7:11] to those who ask him!” (ESV)

And then what ties both analogies together… an analogy of persistence (or even “impudence”) and one of a generous, caring parent…

“And so I tell you, keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened!” (NLT)
(From Luke 11:5-13)

Wow! What a wonderful, gracious, good Heavenly Father. Even superior to the best human parents anyone has ever had! So keep asking… and trust the fundamental goodness of His character. He really wants what is best for you!

“Not to us, O Lord, not to us, but to Your name we give glory!

Our culture worships human accomplishments and performance… which leads to confidence… which, without Biblical and spiritual self-understanding leads to arrogance and pride… which ultimately leads to folly, and expresses itself as sin!
 
It just seems like there has been so much of it lately… I can…! I will…! I can assure you if I’m in charge…! I’ve accomplished this…! I’ve achieved that! Gloating! Trash talk! Intimidation! Self-acclaimed glory! I’m frankly sick of it!
 
In light of all of that, what a refreshing read Psalm 115 was this morning! Helped me keep things in perspective – God’s perspective! Here’s some of what it says…
 
“Not to us, O Lord, not to us, but to Your name give glory! For the sake of Your steadfast love and Your faithfulness! … Oh Israel, trust in the Lord! He is your help and shield. O house of Aaron, trust in the Lord! He is your help and shield. You who fear [reverence] the Lord, trust in the Lord! He is your help and shield! The Lord has remembered us; He will bless us! He will bless those who fear [reverence] the Lord, both the small and the great! … We will bless the Lord from this time forth and forevermore! Praise the Lord! (From Psalm 115)
 
Reminded me of something the New Testament says… “Let no one deceive himself. If anyone among you thinks that he is wise in this age, let him become a fool that he may become wise. For the wisdom of this world is folly with God. For it is written, ‘He catches the wise in their craftiness,’ 20 and again, ‘The Lord knows the thoughts of the wise, that they are futile.’ So let no one boast in men! … What do you have that you did not receive? If then you received it, why do you boast as if you did not receive it?” (from 1 Corinthians 3:18-21; 4:7)
 
Wise people – Godly people – Give God the credit for anything they accomplish! They honor Him for any abilities they possess! “Not to us, O Lord, not to us, but to Your name we give glory! … Praise the Lord!” That’s the way I want to live!

So, who is my “neighbor” anyway?

Neighbor.pngNeighbors… Got one (or more)? How do you feel about them? …Are they good neighbors? Bad neighbors? Irresponsible neighbors? Kind neighbors? Do you even know your neighbors? Or perhaps you wish you had different neighbors? Oh, and I can’t leave this one out… How do you feel about their dog?

Defining a “neighbor” is kind of a slippery task. Is it just the person living next door to you or in an adjoining apartment? Perhaps in your HOA? In fact, most of the definitions in Webster’s dictionary won’t work for the way Jesus used the word “neighbor!”

Jesus had been asked by an authority in religious matters, “Teacher what must I do to inherit eternal life?” (It was kind of a cynical, setup question designed to trip Jesus up.) Jesus reversed the question and asked him, “What is written in the Law? How do you read it?”

He answered, “You, shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your NEIGHBOR (there’s that word) as yourself.”
Jesus told him, “Do that, and you will live.”

The authority in religious matters, wasn’t satisfied – he apparently wanted to get off the hook on this “neighbor” thing. So he said, “And who is my neighbor?”

And then through a story Jesus told (called a “parable”) we get Jesus’ definition of a “neighbor.”

A man was traveling the dangerous road to Jericho. Robbers attacked the man, beat him, left him nearly dead and stripped him of everything he had. A priest came by and completely avoids getting involved. Another religious leader comes over, at least looks at the guy, and then goes on – apparently feeling that he can’t do anything. But a guy that Jews hated – a “Samaritan” (sometimes called a “dog” by Jews) had compassion, dressed the guys wounds, puts him on his donkey, took him to the inn where he could be cared for, payed his bill and promises to check up on him! (What a guy, eh?)

And then Jesus asked a key question that gives us Jesus’ concept of “neighbor!” He asked the religious leader, “Which of these three, do you think PROVED to be a neighbor to the man who fell among the robbers?” And he was forced to answer, “The one who showed him mercy.”

Wow! It’s not just the people living in a house or apartment next door, or even in my HOA… A “neighbor” isn’t just the people I like or people who are like me (the ones who go to my church, vote like I do, speak my language, share my values, or have skin my color). Jesus’ definition embraces ANYONE… that’s right ANYONE… who needs a “neighbor” – anyone who needs kindness, compassion, and help!

And then the clincher… Jesus said, “You go, and do likewise!” Ouch! I need help! Lord help me to “love my neighbor as myself.” Oh Lord, help me to be that kind of person! Work that kind of love into my spiritual DNA and then out in my lifestyle! You feel that way too?