Discipline… Necessary, but Always Redemptive

The “love of God” is wonderful! On the other hand, the Bible also clearly teaches that the “wrath of God” is real – It is His righteous response to unrepentant sin and persistent rebellion.

And then there’s His “discipline” … It is painful and unpleasant, but redemptive! It flows from a “Father heart” and its purposes are remedial and constructive – the character and holiness of His children (check out Hebrews 12:5-11). In fact, I’m reminded that one of our favorite verses affirming the “good purposes” of God in our lives (Jeremiah 29:11… “I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope!”) is actually set within a context of the Lord’s discipline (70 years of exile in Babylon for their sin… check out Jeremiah 29:8-10).

So… Attempting to “mirror” the heart of God, we always sought to make the “discipline” of our children “redemptive” … As a pastor and Christian organizational leader, I purposed that necessary “discipline” would strive to be “remedial” – necessary at times, but always “redemptive!”

That’s why, this morning during my time of “coffee with the Lord” I rejoiced at the words of Apostle Paul when he addressed the issue of necessary “discipline” in the church in 2 Corinthians 2:5-11… (And anyone who has spent time reading Paul’s epistles and Acts knows Paul did not shy away from necessary “discipline!”)

Here’s the direction and exhortation he gave the Corinthian church after some necessary “discipline”…

“Now if anyone has caused pain, he has caused it not to me, but in some measure—not to put it too severely—to all of you. For such a one, this punishment by the majority is enough, so you should rather turn to forgive and comfort him, or he may be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. So I beg you to reaffirm your love for him! …Anyone whom you forgive, I also forgive. Indeed, what I have forgiven, if I have forgiven anything, has been for your sake in the presence of Christ, so that we would not be outwitted by Satan; for we are not ignorant of his designs.” (From 2 Corinthians 2:5-11 ESV)

So as a parent of children, as a pastor, teacher, or organizational leader (and Christian!)… may we purpose with God’s help to “discipline” with the purposes of our Heavenly Father always in focus… “redemptive discipline” in love!

Someone needed to hear this today, I believe!

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